Dear Agastya,

You taught us the great lesson of one-sided love. 

You knew you were never Rumi's first choice.

 Despite all those things you chose Rumi every time. I still remember how you completely mended yourself just to get Rumi's attention, and that's what we all do. Love makes us insane. We get impulsive, We become obsessed. We go that mad that we break all self-esteem boundaries and go beyond our ethics. But that's what we call the magic of love. It gives us the power to care and worry about others more than our feelings. How beautifully you grabbed and held Rumi at her worst times when she was fighting with her insecurities.

 And my most favorite part when You taught us "Koi tumhe Pyaar na Kare isse tumhara pyaar kum nahi ho jaata.Tum kaafi ho.Tumhara Pyaar kaafi hai" and I truly felt that. How fantastically you handled yourself after getting broken and Thanks to Sakshi Gupta. 

She held your hand and had been a great partner throughout. She taught us the most astounding fact that "everyone comes into your life for a purpose for a cause and when it's done, then they have to leave and you need to learn to let them go". I am also grateful to Rumi for teaching us that we all make mistakes and it's okay. We all have our insecurities.

 We crave others' approval and that's real. We all have been through it at least once in a while. Agastya, you said so well that we are our only competition. Our chase should make ourselves better and that's damn true. All in all, you made this hopeless romantic again believe in the magic of love. I don't know where Agastya Rao of my life is hidden.

 But I hope I will meet him soon someday, somewhere amid some blue sky. Yes, Broken but beautiful. A broken soul is beyond beautiful you know why because that soul knows the pain and so they never hurt anyone the way they were hurt.

With Love,

Muski.

                   Top 5 mistakes that we all do

Mistakes, the word itself says that it was misguided.

But what if I say they are your actual saviors. You might be thinking how?

So let me now dive deep into it.

When you make a mistake, you explore, so you learn something at least.

We make mistakes and, that's fine because it shows that we are evolving.

• You know certain times, we give unrequired time and energy to a certain point or a comment which we regret later, and I guess that is our biggest mistake. We pay more attention to what others say than our hearts. It's like holding burning iron in your hand and expecting not to get hurt, which is quite impossible!

• The second and foremost thing we crave for acceptance from others which is not required. We want others to appreciate our deeds and, that eventually pisses us off when we don't get the desired output.

• The other thing is we are never confident in our own decisions. We always seek others to take our life wheel, which is so wrong. It's your life how you can make anyone else rule over it.

• The fourth is we don't respect ourselves. Embrace yourself. Drool over happiness, no one is going to respect you until you respect yourself. Learn to make yourself your favorite person.

• Fifth is we let negativity rule over us, which nails us down and, we feel we are good for nothing.

Stop negativity to barge in, load confidence, build self-esteem, help others and be your best version. Not for others, but this is necessary for your peace because YOU MATTER THE MOST and, you deserve all the HAPPINESS.

 

How to keep yourself motivated??

Well! In this covid crisis, we all have come through a point where we lost all hope. Loneliness and stress struck us so hard!

But what kept us alive and motivated?

Our Mindset!Yes.Lately, but we have realized how important it is to love ourselves!

The world was on fire, No hope, NO inspiration, but there came the role of our hero! Life is not always going to be a bed of roses. We have to bear the pain to gain. And only we can make it possible. All the struggles, all efforts, everything will be paid, but we have to be patient and trust the path.

Anxiety, Depression, Loneliness, Sorrow, everything will knock at our door but, we have to make sure that we don't get bore from life. Life is beautiful and, there is nothing more pleasant than loving our self. When we love ourself we make room to love others too.

Sun will not always be shining on our side, but we have to be right. Don't compromise over your ethics and believes in the worst times because that will take you from 0 to 9. Life is going to be hard at days but, these days will also pass.

Make the best of everything. Live in the moment, give your best and leave the rest on the one in the blue skies. Stay optimistic.